i dont blame the vultures at all, good luck to them i say. if there is a sucker born every minute , thats 1440 suckers born a day. if these idiots want to commit financial and emotional suicide, let the vultures feast till thier hearts content.

Havent we just done this one?

Posted: June 17, 2008, 11:52 am Post subject: What to do?

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Its funny how almost everything comes down to money.I have been married for a year and a half.Things got off to a rocky start,but I thought things would improve with time.My wife has lost her sex drive,maybe its the stress shes been under?When she was trying to catch me,it was high,now its horrible.Thers always a reason,migraine,sore stomach,no sleep,ect.I haven't seen her for 5 months,I thought she would be all over me.She spent money earmarked for other things and did not listen to me to be carefull with the money I sent her,before I came back.She understands English,very well.She will not come to my country as long as her mother is alive and then may not come at all.She uses the argument that my money goes further in Thailand,than Canada.She has a sense of entitlement,due to her previous marriage.She grew with a family that made less than 20,000 baht a month.She spends all her excess money on her family and cannot keep to a budget.We have zero in commen.I don't how my marriage can last too much longer.We have no children.What to do?

This weeks stickman has the perfect blog on this topic if anyone is interested!

johnnyrocco wrote:banpaeng: I am unfamiliar with the expression "smell a windup". I can assure the facts to my story are correct .

I have no problem with the idea that a farang gives a woman money. We all have bills to pay and I don't mind giving it to good looking, friendly Thai girls 1000 b at a time.

The advantage (I tell to younger dudes) is that after the 1000b - she and I are even. She may make no claims for a future or that I owe any emotional attachments. Afterall, i want to meet another young lady the very next evening.

I just don't believe in sending them money - with the assumption that they will not sleep with any other farang in return fior my financial support.

And, I don't blame the Thai girl. It can be a tough, ruthless world out there, trying to make enough to eat and pay rent. And promises broken on all sides. I don't mind them asking,..I just say "I am happy to give you some baht,....when I see you in person."

In fact I will lay it on the bed while she is taking her post-boomboom shower. But I will not wire her cash to put gas in your bf's motorcycle.

"Wind up artist" equals Troll. Not sure of your point, as in telling someone else's story (unless he ask you to) proves nothing. Also this is just a repeat story of a fool and his money are soon parted.

As a new poster, what is your point. Are you a good story teller. I truly doubt it.

I am not on here to debate this with you. IF you feel offended, that is not the point. If all this story is true, let the original person tell his story. It actually might be more interesting.

My last post on this pitiful thread.

sadly most of us were burnt before we wised up /I know I was / I have found myself telling new comers to thailand about how the ladies scam you / sadly they do not believe you / so I decided to keep my mouth shut let them get screwed over if they are that stupid they deserve it / I have witnessed falong giving money to there TGF and they know she is sleeping with other men and getting money from them and they continue to give her money so why even bother saying any thing fool is fool no changing a fool

johnnyroco,

Your "Friends " name would'nt be doughness would it?


dougness wrote:
Thankyou for all your advice,but I can't take it at the moment.I came into a little money and low and behold my wife became sweeter.Maybe it was a coincidence?Anyway she gave me some time to travel,alone.She doesn't believe in Travelling for the sake of travelling when the money could help other family memebers.Im off to Cambodia then Vietnam for the weekend.Its interesting that some Thai dudes don't spend too much on thier Mia nois and we foriengers spend a fortune on are wives.gotta go,bye


Oh ok then....when 'the problem' pops up again...do post it and ask us again.

(from the thread "what to do"

Wind Up IMHO for sure

Talk about a coincidence!Just 3 hours after my last post,My g/f come back this morning.
Yesterday, she called me from her work to say" Boss want me do O/T".Ok ?
I said ok darling up to you, you want do.
She called me at 8pm say Boss want me work all night.Big order.(Only packing doors)
I said ok If you want do.I let her go to work little bit because she dont have friends here.
She came back at 8am this morning! chewing gum( she never normally eats.)
I said I never trust Thais,even her.I wish I could!
I checked her bag.......My God! 50,000 baht appeared! When I confronted her.She said absolutely nothing!
She has a history of gambling.Her husband left her because of this.
Now,I dont know as yet where money come from.Maybe she have Thai b/f working maybe she have thai b/f working abroad send ing money.Who knows.
I give her 10,000 baht a month.Enough! She has one daughter.
One year together! You see! Its in their blood.Lie, cheat, deceive They just cant be trusted.Anyone who says " Oh my wife is faithfull and true"
You are there for The money.If you were poor farang, they would'nt give you the time of day
This will be ongoing. Outcome of this ...Well? What you think?

Bangpaeng, I agree with you. He says, "I am unfamiliar with the expression "smell a windup", and immediately verifies that he DOES understand by stating that, "the facts to my story are correct." And then goes on to tell us how 'experienced' he is after only 3-4 trips overseas... I doubt it.

Another 'hint' is the frequency of visits of this poster.

Pakawala wrote:Bangpaeng, I agree with you. He says, "I am unfamiliar with the expression "smell a windup", and immediately verifies that he DOES understand by stating that, "the facts to my story are correct." And then goes on to tell us how 'experienced' he is after only 3-4 trips overseas... I doubt it.

Another 'hint' is the frequency of visits of this poster.

I think that he and doughness are one of the same!!!!!

banpaeng: at risk of offending a moderator,..you sound old and jaded. the kind of person who doesn't like to listen to anyone else because they think they know it all.

please take your own advice and click on another thread

CONFIRMATION !!

I just received the following PM from our friend jonnyrocco:

"Pakwala, are you a detective? such astounding insight!

Laughing

get bent asshole."

NOW WE ALL KNOW WHO/WHAT WE ARE DEALING WITH.

Pakwala, good work! I thought I was clever but clearly no match for your great intellect.

now go tell mommy that I've been a bad boy.

anyone actually interested in discussing the topic?

johnnyrocco wrote:Pakwala, good work! I thought I was clever but clearly no match for your great intellect.

now go tell mommy that I've been a bad boy.

anyone actually interested in discussing the topic?

No, well not with a Troll

I hate the idea that some one posted all thai girls are liars / I have met some who only lie a little bit
and some who do not lie at all / now it up to you to know the difference / you know when it comes to there family they are going to protect them with there life so do not expect to get the WHOLE truth from them when it involves family / because they are brain washed from child hood /
we westerners are free thinkers and we get caught up in believing some of these wild & fishy tails
I am not going to say my wife does not lie to me because I would be a idiot but I will say it only when it involves her family I hate the idea but like I said they are brain washed from childhood to protect the family at all cost / so I made it my business just to close my eyes when it involves family I help when I can and I do not question it because they were there for me when I needed them / like I said on another post I have nothing I own nothing here & in the USA and if I get dumped I leave with my suit case and my ATM card also my credit cards and I don't cry about it
because I wanted to give it to her what ever I gave remember this if it does not fit in your suit case & you can not wear it you do not OWN IT