Garnet This is not aimed at you but in answer to the above in general.
Anything put on here is an opinion only. There are all kinds of levels of knowledge and writing ability on here. What is wrote is maybe what it sounds like to a person and maybe the writer did not mean it as it is being taken. Usually by the time you get back to it some other folks have taken the lead and the item is all turned around or the original poster theam was not even taken as was written.
Most writing on this forum have never met and we really do not know whom we are speaking to or about but (yes I have done this to) we take it a bit serious. As usual someone will get a bit upset. I have learned this and tried to just let it ebb and flow. I really think that if anyone on this forum were to actually meet and talk, we would most be on the same book if not the same page(well some would be on a different chapter

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The above is an opinion and not aimed at anyone. I only hope I can read and heed.
As for the nickname, that is nice compared to some things I have been called.