Well Attagal you asked for advise, so here goes. don't know why I'm doing this, my own kids never listen to me, so why should I think you will?
Firstly you don't give an indication of gender so I answer as to a male, but it is equally applicable to a female with a few minor adjustments.
You are very young to be pursuing the Thai dream, so my first suggestion is you put that dream on hold for now. Get yourself a good European wife, buy a house with a 30 year mortgage, contribute to the largest retirement pension you can afford. Then when your just 52, still quite young, the house will be paid for. Divorce the wife , sell the house, give her half if necessary, it will still be worth a lot by then, book a ticket to Thailand and start your dream.You will have a large cash sum to buy a place over here, a nice car and whatever else tickles your fancy. Plus a regular monthly pension income. No need to worry about scratching around to earn a living teaching or running a bar like so many seem to do.You will be a King and it won't be long before you will find your Queen. Its possible she won't even be born yet.At this time.
Assuming as most people do, your not really wanting fresh ideas but simply confirmation of your own, then you will ignore all that. So let me say. It may come as a surprise to know that French is not generally regarded as an important , must have, international language here, and as Thai law stipulates only native English speakers can be considered for English teaching posts, your chances of getting legal employment are very few.The alternative illegal way is not really a serious contemplation.
You might consider the alternative of Vietnam, where French , both language and lifestyle are more predominant, and your chances of earning a living this way are more likely. I understand the other attractions available are very similar to Thailand anyway.
To sum up, what I am really trying to say. Thailand is a great place to spend money , not earn it.It would be better to have 20+ years of sheer pleasure at age 52 , than 50+ years of worry and concern about making a living at age 22.
Whatever your decision, I hope it works out for you.
