Jackspratt

I think about 75% of divorces are initiated by women (I can be corrected on that one) and when they get to the crunch time they often regret it.
I read somewhere that instead of giving a women the divorce decree she seeks a Judge should listen and then tell her to go away and think again. There will be men here whose ex wifes probably regret asking for a divorce and that is the panic I was referring to.Many marriages could have been saved if Judges made Relate counselling compulsory. I also think it should be made compulsory for solicitors acting to meet with their clients before it gets to a settlement proposal. Another story for another day.

I would like to ad my opinion again after they divorce there husband and see there life style go down the toilet in some case's they regret getting divorced and when they see or hear there husband is dating a girl 10 or 15 years younger they get extremly jelouis especially if there no children involved then there no child support and a crutch to hang on to get alimoney. I just want to ad I dislike phonies & liers of both sexes. I just want to ad some thing else it may be off topic but when you get involved with a women who has children if you can not love them and nourish them then don't marry the women it unfair to the children and if the mother does not care about her children she will run off with you and dump the kids on grandma or some one else so in my opinion again you did not get a prize. so when you crawl under the sheets and you get a nice surprise 9 months later don't run be a man and love that child and support that child that also go for the females. it so easy to get abortion I guess that all that counts is that roll in the hay

Naam Jai,

I take in that quoted above

Though there are some scientists who believe that monogamy is an unhealthy, unnatural state of the human mind, many believe the opposite to be true. Sexual researchers, Will Blythe and Dr. Patricia Love both believe that the key to regaining and reaffirming a solid, loving relationship is rooted in the basis of monogamy.

This is also the socially and morally accepted behavior pattern of any 21st century cultural society.

That is not to say that I personally have not "strayed" in the past.

I can only reiterate that which I stated in a previous post: "A loving and caring one to one relationship between a man and woman, is that which separates humans from animals"

When I married my Thai wife, Jack, I did so in a reserved fashion. I had recognized in her a woman who was good and trustworthy in all the basic levels, and I adored her innocent humour and ways. She made me feel a decent joy and comfort with life and her that I did not know I could experience. But she didn't 'turn me on' in any kind of wild fashion.

After we married, I believed that I would probably stray. She was the only Asian woman I had ever gotten involved with on any level, after all. I'd never even kissed another Asian woman, believe it or not! I felt that I should likely sample a little more, particularly since I esteemed her to be on the plain side, and not someone I'd have ever put any effort into meeting if we'd met on the Web.

I'm truncating this description, but it is marginally correct.

Since Jack has come to Canada, the lift she has given to my bleak life here -- and the unguarded affection and devotion to this husband of hers who is more than 23 years her senior -- has revolutionized my perspective, and my heart itself.

When I look at her, I see one of the most beautiful beings I have ever been blessed to know.

Perhaps I could be seduced to stray. But the image of Jack's pained, trusting face would -- I pray -- always provide me the strength to turn from any such weak opportunity.

And I thank God just about every day for her.

Naam Jai
Thank you for the lecture on polygamy. As I am not a complete idiot I already knew what polygamy is. So you still didn

Danish let send cap verde some lady boys and let see the out come
I am just joking want to ad some humor
I have no respect for a man who run out on his children and his responsibility to his children
and that applies to the mother also

Danish

You now say "I am not a complete idiot,I knew what polygamy was"

But the question you asked me to answer was :-
"But would you show me where it was written by a world known scientist--- that men are polygamists"

I felt I answered that question.

You now also say " But you will properly say that I was wrong to divorce him"

I am not sitting in judgement on you.

If you don't mind I will gracefully withdraw from your public display of emotion.
I am sorry for your troubles but what you say does seem to confirm more than one of my points.

Danish...that wasn't a man you married. It was a TURD. Hot'n stinky. Men mak mak.

People have an impressing ability to do what is best in order for the society to survive.

It's called "culling".
Ya offload the ones that pose a risk to that society. For the harmony & safety of all.