Spirit
we have a saying in england "you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink" you fit this perfect, please for your own sanity and dignity take the advice we give you.. But i totally understand its not easy and maybe you really cant let her go...You know its the best thing, we know its the best thing but its how strong you are really!! good luck!!!

I've never before advocated using one of those large electric "cattle-prod" zappers on a human being
but I think we can make an exception in this case. Most of us have been drawn into some type
of relationship with a pathological liar before and it is a black hole to avoid getting sucked into. I wish
I could say I was smart enough to have avoided it, but that wouldn't be true. Really, as primitive as it sounds it probably would be for the best if you found another girl toute-suite. Any girl will do.

I knew this Doctor once when a new patient made appointment to see him his first question was do you smoke if they said yes he showed them the door and told them he can not help them
well in this case is were it applies show him the door because he will not listen to us
he is looking for some place to get sympathy because some gal hurt him and took his money
my answer is welcome to the real world if you don't watch your own money some one else will and you won't have it very long as they say down in TEX/MEX adios amigo