agree, bob nailed that well.
as long as you don't have an introvert personality, think that's what its called. ok, off the horse, if you're not shy and have a set, you really should have no problems playing single in Udon. though if dependent on bar scene alone, the pickins may be slim and expensive as compared to patters or tourist area. there really are just too many bars per customers, as mentioned, not a tourist destination, and the expats are mostly settled in and not really looking, well, on a consistent basis. so the gals have a rough go at making money, hence sometimes the high prices, trying to compensate, and lack of quality hanging around town too long.
as far as the bars being grim, well, with few exceptions, it's best to bring the festivities with you. if out and about, not Irish Clock or Nobi‘s, i will get bored very fast, unless with couple friends, then it really doesn't matter where we're at, we'll enjoy ourselves. which is probably why the night market meetings seem to work well for expats here. since not on the prowl, bringing the festivities with us, and some of the best eye candy, why bother with the 'bars', and pay big beer prices for small beers. had good times in orange moon, DN, fiddler's green, and even Harleys, ok, grand opening, but again, only because of the company i was with. been out and about by ourselves, me and Ree, my better half, and have a beer at best, or walked into DN, and simply turned around and left. not that we bore each other, but we can have more fun at night market talking to sis or back home/hotel.
personally, i'm one of those hopeless romantics, and actually prefer long term relationships, just not very good at it. so when the fail, i really don't mind playing single either, for a while, though i'm too needy, or need to be needed, so then back to relationship mode, as long as that next one will last. with the right personality, you'll have no problems which ever you prefer. enjoy.
