Hi you guys,experts all i see,I am irish i live i a great place capetown for 30 yrs have my own small company ,broke up with my gfriend last year
found a girl on the internet TLF she contacted me i told her she was far to youn she insisted i was what she wanted, i went to nong bua lampu and met her,she is young 23 one child the usual divorced,met her family very poor,went to the village for songarm blessing at the grannys,with her for 4 days hardly any english has not been in the bars worked in a factory
says she fell in love with me on the internet (we spoke for 4 months with help from her sister before meeting)i got a visa for her last week and hope she comes out next week,this is a calculated risk on my part,i am used to living with woman 30 yrs and more younger than me both lasted 7 yrs one a cape coloured girl the other africans girl ,the mistake i made with both i did not marry them ,i am now going with my heart ,i admit to having jasmin fever,if all works out i will be spending a lot of time in your city,I will let you know how it is going she will stay for 3months ,wish me luck.i will post a month by month report cheers

just to clarify......so you "met on the net" and she fell in love with you before actually meeting you,you have visited Thailand and her home only once(4 days you say) i presume, and you have got her a visa to visit ? south africa....


and you say you are used to living with girls 30 years(of age??) and more younger than you, and you say she is 23 years ? whats 7 years,i would,nt worry about that...... (but don't tell moi-thai-guy lol)

why is it a calculated risk ? as after 3 months she will fly home,and if it don't work out you don't see each other anymore.

and what is a "Cape" coloured girl ?

I am amazed you got her a visa - especially after spending only 4 days with her.
Would never happen if you lived in the US or UK
Well done
Good Luck

The visa i used a visa company,no problem, A cape colored person is a mixed maly farang african malay mix its the acepted description over here I was married to a cape malay lady for ten yrs got divorce 14yrs ago she is still my best friend i have two kids 20 22 with her one doing law the other marketing, she will look after my new girlfriend when she comes over,,, Beer monkey i am over 30 years older than my last girlfriendd in fact 37yrs ,But you are right no real risk
its going to be interesting few months, one thing i myself cannot explain when anyone from europe wants to get a 3 month visa for south africa it is difficult as it is the plce to be at this time,for me i want to sell my company and be on extended holliday before the 210 football crowed get here ,