Not wanting to open the age gap topic again ,but i would like to get opinions of the girls in this matter ,most guys have to go east to find a young girl that will put up with them ,i myself have lived with younger girls who are self sufficent one is a docter,I must agree that sometimes you look at a couple and can see there is no connection if you as a guy look like **** have no style and no zest for life then she is in it for the cash (only) it was great to get all your comments ,even the negative ones
but when i curl up in bed tonight with my essan lovelly,I dont give a dam

Hope your warm and comfortable and your relationship flourishes!Is their an Isaan community in Capetown?

Starting to smell a bit like troll.

And that's my last word on this topic.

designer wrote:Not wanting to open the age gap topic again ,but i would like to get opinions of the girls in this matter ,most guys have to go east to find a young girl that will put up with them ,i myself have lived with younger girls who are self sufficent one is a docter,I must agree that sometimes you look at a couple and can see there is no connection if you as a guy look like **** have no style and no zest for life then she is in it for the cash (only) it was great to get all your comments ,even the negative ones
but when i curl up in bed tonight with my essan lovelly,I dont give a dam

Best of luck Designer, keep in touch. Maybe next time you can take up with a teacher to help you with your spellings. How about some Sesame Street videos from eBay?

All together now...
"One of these trolls is not like the other one one of these trolls just doesn't belong can you tell which troll is not like the other one before I finish my song?"

i would like to know how many relationships some of you guys had before meeting mrs right, A troll is a guy who is paying the bar while visiting the family,I was born in eire not there long enough to learn to spell ,I am on this site to learn from the masters. never had a thai girlfriend before ,i will now say a few words in troll (i think she is the one )she is now in capetown for three months ,who will hold the bets 1000bt i say it will work out well ,i will collect when i hope to meet some of you guys in september ,(where is that bloody spell check)great stuff byt he way whats the goig rate (sin sot) troll troll troll.

bkkstan""there is a small thai community in capetown and i think 7 thai resteraunts
which do very well,i have been to some of the thai gatherings here but some of the girls are not kosher my ex wife is cape malay ,she and my girlfriend already get along,rickfarang its all, fun Irish how did you get my girlfriends photo?

What do you mean by ''not kosher''?

That they are girls that are not interested in you and your G/F succeeding in having a good relationship?

Or,is it that they don't like your G/F because she is different?Is your G/F also Malay?

I imagine it is important,no matter where you live,to know or learn the attitude and motives of the other Thai Girls that your G/F or wife might befriend!

How hard is it for a Thai to get a visa to visit South Africa?

Hi bkkstan It was not hard to get her a visa,she had only worked as a trainee in the hilton hotel and helped her mother /father on the farm,took 10 min to come through passport control, kosher some of the girls dress&act like they are in soi cowboy ,I dont want her to get mixed up with this crowd , I understand that if a thai girl wants to come here it can be difficult also depends on the guys standing in this country,a lot of girls used to come over to sa to work in strip clubs ect they weed out anybody that looks like they are working in the skin trade .i must say that most of the thais that are in SA are in johanesburg, a few thai farang couples in my area .most in the food trade and nice people.

How did you choose your thread title ''my last word(honest)?I don't know ,but it might have triggered your troll posts!
Just guessing
Are or were you a fequent visitor to Thailand?

Bkk I dont worry about the troll thing ,at the momment I am a happy troll ,
I do appreciate the information on this forum,i have been to thailand 5 times done the bar scene ,I know one has to be careful with who you hook up with in thailand
like a good gambler only risk what you can afford to loos,If all goes well I will marry this girl,i hope to meet some of you guys in a couple of months time,cheers