I've only just got around to reading this thread. I couldn't believe what I was reading!!
Why ask for advice if you have already made up your mind and aren't going to take the advice given?!
Both these cases look like lost causes to me. If you want to give them money, give them 4500-5000 baht a month, - that's about what they would earn if they had a job and would still manage to send some home to the family.
If you send me 45K a month I'd happily travel for miles to chat to you in an Internet shop, - with or without a webcam!!! I'd maybe even try and chat to a couple of other guys at the same time whilst I am there, who maybe also send me money, - it's called "economies of scale".
Wake Up!!! She can live on 5k a month and will
IF she loves you!!!
If you want to take care of the world's poor, give to a reputable charity, otherwise it seems to me that you are most definitely being taken advantage of.
Get out now, or at least stop giving them money and see what happens and how much they really love you!!
