It still amazes me a bit that these people do not seem to apply the same basic criteria that they surely would if they were on home turf before committing anything. Even, that is, if they choose to ignore "warnings".
I dunno, bad news makes news I suppose. On the up side I went (bosses orders) to a wedding party on Saturday, thus missing the forumites meeting (guess where I would rather be

). There was a success story, 3 years or so before taking the major step and a happy and very complimentary farang/thai couple. It is possible, for those that doubt it
John