Well silly me I voted for the last one never mind each to his own Hey True Vision, as your about 21 years old and know everything, and general concensus says our Thai ladies are on average 20 years younger than us, what exactly do you and your TG have in common I know, "NAPPIES"

banpaeng wrote:I am not so sure what all the hoopla is about. Love is what it means to an individual. We all look at things differently.

True, but that way of thinking makes for really boring threads.

aznyron wrote:Banp I never look at it being with a lady of a different RACE I look at it as she is my wife & my best friend
and my lover my cook LOL and I sure hope she does not see me as some white man
Yes being in Thailand the rules are different age does not matter here if you can provide security
as well as LOVE and in return you will get LOVE & SEX which is what most want from there bed partners

Evidently you did not read well. I ask why do the rules of relationships change if you have a relationship with a different race. It does not and should not. I totally disagree with you as to how one should look at the other. One should be proud of their race and honor other races. I am not the same as my wife and I celebrate our differences. All I am saying is just because one gets into a relationship with anyone, things do not change. People are people. Respect is the word that comes to mind. It boils down to respect. Once that goal is met then it is possible to have a relationship with anyone. We are all different and should be proud of that.

Nothign I coudl vote on heck yes money is always a issue you dont have enough. At 62 my view of love I much different then I was at 22, so can't qauilfy on any of them.

Yes we love eachother and yes most of the time we get along, sometimes we fight like cats and dogs, can't believe I have spent five years with anyone 7/24

Trust is a big thing has been violated yes, but in very small ways. Trust her competly with money, better with it then I am.

I really have very little inlaw problems at all.

I think as you get older you look at realtiosnhips very differently, in other words you can see and think higher then the belt buckle a opposed to always below it

I think as you get older you look at realtiosnhips very differently, in other words you can see and think higher then the belt buckle a opposed to always below it

speak for yourself - whats below my belt buckle does from time to time - think for itself

banpaeng wrote:

aznyron wrote:Banp I never look at it being with a lady of a different RACE I look at it as she is my wife & my best friend
and my lover my cook LOL and I sure hope she does not see me as some white man
Yes being in Thailand the rules are different age does not matter here if you can provide security
as well as LOVE and in return you will get LOVE & SEX which is what most want from there bed partners

Evidently you did not read well. I ask why do the rules of relationships change if you have a relationship with a different race. It does not and should not. I totally disagree with you as to how one should look at the other. One should be proud of their race and honor other races. I am not the same as my wife and I celebrate our differences. All I am saying is just because one gets into a relationship with anyone, things do not change. People are people. Respect is the word that comes to mind. It boils down to respect. Once that goal is met then it is possible to have a relationship with anyone. We are all different and should be proud of that.

I don't think the issue is as much concern to those cross cultural marriages of participants they are of the same generation,although I am sure there are adjustments that had to be considered!

Nor do I think the issue has to do with race,although there are many social issues and predjudices to deal with.

The issue is the marriages/relationships with larger age differences that lend generation problems along with the obvious,which is the probable lack of physical attraction on the part of the girls!Security being the most obvious motive while listening to ''I love you'' which might be hard to accept by some!

Stan, you speak well in you last post and I agree. People are people and age plays into all relationships. Even of the same age, maturity levels of all are not the same.

Thanks Stan.

aznyron wrote:your dog loves you with out exception no matter if you feed her/him dog food or steak this works with the women as well as long as you treat them as your equal not some one to use as a door mat or that in reverse
because they do not respect a door mat.

I like how you said that, Ron. Maybe that is leaning toward 'unconditional love'.

Well,I know of a farang who is impotent.Although he wont admit it, he allows his wife to forfill her sexual needs away from home.
To me that must be some love ! I, even if could not "rise to the occasion", could not bring myself to allow this to happen.
The point is,she enjoys her freedom sexually,but can she still love her husband even though she is having sex with other men? Most women will say They only want sex with their partner ....no one else!
Work that one out lads! another poll?

mortiboy wrote:Well,I know of a farang who is impotent.Although he wont admit it, he allows his wife to forfill her sexual needs away from home.
To me that must be some love ! I, even if could not "rise to the occasion", could not bring myself to allow this to happen.
The point is,she enjoys her freedom sexually,but can she still love her husband even though she is having sex with other men? Most women will say They only want sex with their partner ....no one else!
Work that one out lads! another poll?

I don't know about love,but it sounds,to me,like he feels that he NEEDS her and calls that love.Probably rationalises in his mind that he is given her this freedom as a sign of love,As far as I am concerned,there are many over aspects to sex than a stiff dick and if she really cared about HIS feelings,she would work it out with him!
It would be hard for me to be convinced that he likes this arrangement if he really loves her!

But it is their business and I wouldn't interfere!If he told you about,IMO,it is bothering him!