mortiboy wrote:Most Farangs here have either a Thai wife, or long term relationship .I wonder, can anybody actually say"My partner love me?"
I just think To have a wife at maybe half your age is just unheard of in most farang countries. Yes This is Thailand!
Ask A wife/partner,Why you love me? ...The answer will invariably be" You have good heart".

So What is "good heart".... We know that one don't we. Take care. Don'T you ever ask yourself,If I not have money, would She still stay with me?
" Love" here is not love as I see it.It is all about " I have farang he take care me and kids" Him good man love him sooooo much. But what about cant take care? Will she love you? NAH! In your dreams.

But It's ok to just pretend and live life of having a nice young (or older) lady as a good friend, lover.companion which you could never dream of having in your own country.
As a matter of interest, .....(Pop pops)Like see a poll....".Do you think your Partner loves you really"

Yes I will do a poll, and give my comment on it. You really know how to open a can of wiggly worms don't you mate????

mortiboy wrote:Most Farangs here have either a Thai wife, or long term relationship .I wonder, can anybody actually say"My partner love me?"
I just think To have a wife at maybe half your age is just unheard of in most farang countries. Yes This is Thailand!
Ask A wife/partner,Why you love me? ...The answer will invariably be" You have good heart".

So What is "good heart".... We know that one don't we. Take care. Don'T you ever ask yourself,If I not have money, would She still stay with me?
" Love" here is not love as I see it.It is all about " I have farang he take care me and kids" Him good man love him sooooo much. But what about cant take care? Will she love you? NAH! In your dreams.

But It's ok to just pretend and live life of having a nice young (or older) lady as a good friend, lover.companion which you could never dream of having in your own country.
As a matter of interest, .....(Pop pops)Like see a poll....".Do you think your Partner loves you really"

Your topic ''Real love''!Seems like it would easier to understand your point above ,if you described ''love as you see it''!

I read this about 50 years ago, i think it was said a couple of hundred years before.
If of herself she will not love naught can make her THE DEVIL TAKE HER
nothing has changed in this world

I was told a long time a go when you leave the bed room you better have some thing to offer her
other than a good night kiss. so when God created man he gave us a women to love & support
until we die those two requirements are still there it called LOVE & SUPPORT that means $$$$$$$$
and respect & equality loyalty along with honesty and in return you expect the same only with out the $$$$$$$ that the MAN job you not having money is the same as a wife who has a headache 24/7
eventually you get tired or bored with the partner and want out it called SS she gives SEX you give SECURITY

I'm not the love expert, but here is what I think. Asking if there is real love is like asking whether god is exist or not? I think it all depend on how much faith you put into your relationship! If you believe in it yes it is truth!! Give and Take is also the idea. well to know that she loves you or not is not easy but the answer is her action toward you. Some people says I love you all the time while the other not! Ask yourself a few question if she cares of you as much as she cares of herself, will she be there with you in both good and bad times? As a Thai women, I know money issue has been very important for our society,that is why dowry tradition is created by our ancestor. In fact, I think it is important everywhere!! Even there is a western Tv show call True Love Or Money and yes somebody picked money!! As a matter of fact, many farang are skeptical whether they are receiving true love from their wife and gf or not coz of the money issue! I heard some even do not let their wife or gf touch their money thinking it is the wise thing to do,well it is good to be careful, but it's kind of sad that you got the kind of untrusting feeling toward the one who sleep on the other side of your everyday bed.

But okay maybe somebody has found the new girl and want to know if this girl can be trust or not then here is what I think,If I were a farang who has a Thai gf for a day! I would give to the women who not expecting anything from me, I would give to the women who never ask anything from me at first, I would give to the women who is hard working and appreciated small things that come in life, and I'd give to the women who not taking my money for granted. Is that enough reasons ? if I had found that kind of women I would not have even let her ask any baht from me coz I would be giving her anything in the world!! Well I've seen there are many kinds of Thai women like that, unfortunately, people do not recognize the best in them!!

I wonder if the real reason for all this is that most Farang that marry Thai girls are insecure...

I wonder If you and your 'man-thong' might be onto something westers...anyone want to put their hands up..

aznyron wrote:I was told a long time a go when you leave the bed room you better have some thing to offer her
other than a good night kiss. so when God created man he gave us a women to love & support
until we die those two requirements are still there it called LOVE & SUPPORT that means $$$$$$$$
and respect & equality loyalty along with honesty and in return you expect the same only with out the $$$$$$$ that the MAN job you not having money is the same as a wife who has a headache 24/7
eventually you get tired or bored with the partner and want out it called SS she gives SEX you give SECURITY

Spot on,Ronnie!!
I liked Bangsean_girls perpective also!

good answer from bangsean girl i think , women are women the world over , some good , some not so good , some loving , some materialistic , ect ect ect . westers has in my mind hit the nail squarely on the head . you gotta love yourself before you can accept anyone else does or can . do you love yourself morti ????????

do you love yourself morti ????????
Ido! Ido! I do! I think Real love, is to love someone more than yourself.I put my partner first always ....me second .I even eat the crust and give her the good slice!Now thats what I call love !

mortiboy wrote:do you love yourself morti ????????
Ido! Ido! I do! I think Real love, is to love someone more than yourself.I put my partner first always ....me second .I even eat the crust and give her the good slice!Now thats what I call love !

But if she eats the pizza instead of the crust,she must not have ''real love'' for you,right?Or viceversa?

symptoms that your wife don't lub you INCLUDE



1. the wife is old enough to be you daughter and says "she lub youuuuu"



2. if you say you pension money is a little tight this month she look's disturbed



3. she wants to be decorated like a christmas tree in gold (now did you buy her that gold?)











hahahha Jesus what a paranoid post nice to know I have a normal life and not on the last chance saloon .. never mind eh? going back broke and being taken as a old fool is that not that bad is it? Now please excuse me BBQ in the back garden and a nice beer leo just as the sun goes down i love life

Well we can't see you having a BBq and a beer in your back yard can we..? (don't dribble that beer or scoff that BBQ to fast..indigestion can be a pain)

OR MAYBE no teeth eat as if you are in a gurning contest as the woman known as your wife looks in the other direction not talking to each other

hahahha Jesus what a paranoid post nice to know I have a normal life and not on the last chance saloon ..

Mmmm. Well, Don'T take these post so seriously TV,Its all in good fun pal.Most of us lot here are well happy and do have "normal relationships".
Without these kind of posts there would be nothing left to talk about!(except long boring articles taken from a news bulletins ect along without comment from OP.
Enjoy your "normal" life! while us poor" paranoid" farangs battle through life with doubt in our minds