Not really a danger sign but a cautionary tale so I started a new forum. A lot of guys are coming here now to find a bride from a government profession, ie: teacher, nursing or amphoe, there are many ladies of this kind seeking farang husbands. Whilst most of us are aware they don't earn big money what is not so commonly known is that these posts carry a good retirement lump sum pension after several years service.Now comes the problem. They can borrow huge sums, up to 800,00bht that I know of, against this at any time after certain number of years service. The repayment contract allows minimal monthly repayments because the large sum is taken from the final pension payment.Now where we come in.If she leaves her employment at any time this amount becomes repayable instantly and in full.Where I live there are two cases that I know of. The first a teacher borrowed 800,000 has been married to an American for two years now but hasn't told him. He is constantly trying to get her to finish work and go to the States with him. He doesn't understand her reluctance, not knowing she can't finish work. She is frightened to tell him in case he calls it a day. So he keeps sending her money every month totally unaware of the real situation.
The second case is more recent, in fact it's ongoing. This lady is a nurse, her debt is more modest, less than 300,000bht.But she is going ahead with marrying a guy, that eventually wants to take her to USA.She is hoping after the marriage if he presses the issue she can explain and he will settle for her!!!This is , of course, addittional to the Sin Sod.
It is something to be aware of and to check very carefully before commiting yourself.
