Author: laphanphon » August 29, 2006, 7:03 am
ok, my first reply was something like, read the 1st paragraph and didn't want to waste any of my precious time left on earth reading the rest of the dribble. then saw your post on another thread about wife and family supporting, so i figured i'd kill some time waiting for little one to get dressed for school.
what you say is generalizing, but true in many aspects. but, only the naive fall into the sex/business trap. personally, i have a bit more respect for myself, not saying i've never had a bad experience, but if in the situation, would end it and hopefully protected myself enough not to have my clock cleaned.
what i don't understand, is you appear to be in the situation you describe and have no problem with it. scratching my head, and also want my 10 minutes of life back. i enjoy love, i like the challenge of it, i love the mutual feelings and rewards when it is and works so well. but it is really hard to find. i personally would prefer to keep looking rather than settle for the lust of good sex and responsibility, not saying that is a bad thing, but sells yourself a bit short. i would rather be the hopeless romantic and keep searching, as much fun and frustrating as that can be, than settle for something that isn't 100% of what i want. because i am worth all of what i need and want.